Tuesday, September 9, 2014

The importance of "Socks"

For the annual family summer trip this year, Jie and Mei participated in Dad's 45 year class reunion in Cagary. Yes, even though he graduated in 1969, his classmates still have an active email distribution list and try to get together every year. In contrast, although Mei graduated from college a mere 8 years ago, she only keeps in touch with a handful of her classmates and often has trouble remembering who various 'friends' are on her facebook feed.

The reason for the reunion being in Calgary was because Dad's former teacher eventually settled down in Canada and wanted to bring his students to the beloved national parks that the region is famous for. Mom and Dad were the only ones who travelled all the way from Asia, and hoped Jie and I could join them too, so another family vacation it became!

The trip started out in Jie-Mei drama fashion when we landed at the Chicago O'Hare airport only to find that our connection to Calgary was cancelled! As we stared incredulously at the words 'CANCELLED' next to our flight on the monitor, a familiar feeling of dread washed over us, as we had no idea what the itinerary was for the next few days. Dad's teacher had meticulously planned the entire week out, including staying overnight at various locations along the way, and missing a day could mean missing out on the entire trip. Luckily, once we checked into the complementary airport hotel and read through the schedule, we found out that we would only miss a visit to the museum on the first day and could meet up with the group afterwards. With a potential disaster averted, we quickly emailed our parents to let them know of our delay, ate some greasy airport American Chinese take out food and went to bed in the yoga pants we wore onto the plane. As long as the sisters are together, nothing can go wrong!

A little bit about Alberta before we continue:

Alberta, Canada is home to some of the most stunning and picturesque natural landscapes in the world. There are five national parks within the province of Alberta. These are: Banff, Elk Island, Jasper, Waterton and Wood Buffalo. Alberta is also home to the Canadian Rocky Mountains and several famous lakes. During the summer, the weather is generally sunny and temperatures can reach a high of 30C in the middle of the day. It also gets dark fairly late, around 930 pm, so it is a popular time for people to take a trip to one of the national parks and spend a good amount of time hiking and enjoying the beautiful scenery.

When Jie and I finally met up with the rest of the group for dinner on the first day, we were introduced to six of my dad's classmates (including the teacher) and each of their spouses. Unsurprisingly, Jie and I were the only 'kids' on the trip. We quickly became used to hanging out with the older crew, and learned some great tips, including the importance of choosing the right socks to wear for each day, depending on the activity and climate. We thus affectionately coined the nickname 'Uncle Socks' for the classmate who raised this concern and issue.

Some highlights and key takeaways from the trip included:


1) Thank goodness my sister came with me
2) We used the bathroom A LOT
3) Canada is huge, beautiful and expensive
4) Calgarians are nice. They didn't honk when we stopped illegally in the middle of the road at a green light to let people off (smh)
5) Being one of "those" loud Asians isn't so bad when you are part of the group
6) Best way to save money is to picnic your way through Banff
7) Being one of the "kids" means you can free ride your way through the trip since the "adults" plan for everything
8) Your dad can "subcontract" his journal writing responsibilities to you without your consent
9) Husbands go off to do their own thing, wives nag them back to reality
10) Dad looks good in Lululemon shorts
11) Uncle Chen's philosophy. Short term goal: wake up in one piece everyday. Long term goal: live until 100
12) Uncle Song's philosophy. Check yourself into an old people's community before you are too old to do it yourself
13) Everyone's philosophy. Stay healthy and kick your kids butts hiking and playing golf

Waterton National Park

Grassi Lakes, Canmore


How Asians save money by packing everything imaginable for picnics and finding storage holes at the bottom of SUVs 

Columbia Icefield

Peyto Lake

Moraine Lake

Lake Louise






Sunday, May 25, 2014

"Sugar Tea a Dream"


Turkey is a country of contrasts, and an example of how different cultures can meld together harmoniously. Straddling Europe and Asia, everything about Turkey, ranging from its food and culture, to the physical environment, is tinged with a stunning blend of the East and West. Although some may wonder whether this has caused an identity crisis, we feel that it has actually created a most amazing and unique identity of all...

It was not our first time visiting Turkey – in fact, we had visited 24 years ago in 1990, but needless to say, bringing kids to places when they are 6 and 9 years old respectively is a huge waste, because the only thing we remembered from the trip were the dirty toilets on the ferryboat and a dancing bear.

In front of the blue mosque in 1990
A few of our observations from the trip:

Turkish people are incredibly warm and genuine. Although most people we interacted with spoke perfect English, even those who could not understand us would give us a smile and try their best to help. I emphasize that they are genuine, because they haven’t been jaded like locals in countries that see a large influx of commercially-minded tourists. This phenomenon has made us hesitant to recommend Turkey as a travel destination to other people, for fear of tainting the innocence. Turkish people are generally fair skinned with dark hair coloring and delicate features, giving them a somewhat exotic look but also a way to almost blend seamlessly into any race.

Our adorable guide from the Culinary Backstreets of Istanbul tour
Turkish food is a true ‘hidden gem’, with very little of the actual food eaten on the streets and in mom & pop stores making it abroad. Some of our favorites from the trip included borek (lasagna-like snack that is made by layering in pastry dough and baked with white cheese, then cut up with slices of cooked pasta sheets in the middle), pide (Turkish pizza), mezze (dazzling array of spreads like hummus, eggplant, and pepper puree to be mopped up by an ever-present supply of freshly baked Turkish bread), a thousand different types of kebabs and wraps, menemem (Turkish scrambled eggs in skillet served at breakfast), gozleme (a savory crepe-like snack that resembles a Chinese onion pancake, baked over a hot clay stone and filled with spinach and cheese). In addition, yogurt is used frequently, including as a topping on savory dishes to offer a tangy flavor contrast, made into dips with herbs such as dill, and also eaten as a snack or dessert when drizzled with honey. We were a big fan of the Turkish yogurt! On the whole, Turkish food is light on the salt and seasoning, with most of the flavors coming from the freshness of the ingredients as well as the frequent dollop of yogurt or sour cream. Ironically, Turkish desserts such as baklava, kunefe and trilece are so intensely sweet to the point of being overwhelming, which contradicts the subtle flavors of their savory food. Due to the amazing variety of indigenous Turkish foods, we noticed very little presence of cuisine from other countries, and agree that there is hardly any reason for them to exist! More details on Turkish food in the second to last section below.

Borek
Gozleme
Chicken and Iskender kebab at Kosap Osman
Fish wrap at Furreyya
Kaymak drizzled with honey
Traditional breakfast spread

Kunefe
Baklava
Trilece
Specialization: During our ‘Backstreets of Istanbul’ culinary tour, we learned about the incredible dedication that the Turkish people have to their specific trade, with specialization down to the finest detail. It is not uncommon to have someone practice a trade for his entire adult life. When we went to visit a restaurant that prides itself in making Turkish pides, we found out that it was a 3-man shop, with 1 man who was in charge of kneading the dough and sprinkling on the toppings, 1 man responsible for throwing the dough into the oven for baking, and the third in charge of cutting up the pide and putting it into delivery boxes. This is what each person did all day, every day, for the last few decades. Their exceptional dedication and attention to detail is astounding, particularly in this day and age, where many people have trouble concentrating on a single task for more than a few minutes at a time.

Left: Baker, Right: Topping sprinkler
Cutter and packer
Turkish pide (pizza)
Similar division of duties by women making gozleme
Turkish tea or ‘cay’ is a critical component of Turkish culture. It is brewed strong, diluted with hot water, and served in clear vase-shaped glasses meant to resemble the curvaceous shape of a woman’s body. Turkish people use tea time to catch up with friends, conduct business negotiations and as a break during a hot day. Each cup of tea is small (around 150ml) and 7-8 glasses are consumed throughout the day. Coming from the US, where the smallest cup is at least 350 ml, Jie found each portion of tea to be quite miniature. Drinking tea is such an important part of doing business, that each ‘han’ or guild that houses workshops and retail stores selling a particular type of good, must have a teahouse where business dealings take place.

Cup of turkish tea
Although not consumed as frequently throughout the day, Turkish coffee is also a strong fixture in the culture and is served in a small espresso cup. Turkish coffee is very strong and is poured with the grains inside the cup. After a cup of coffee is finished, it is turned over onto a saucer to let the grains settle. A person’s fortune can then be read from the coffee residue remaining at the bottom of the coffee cup. In fact, there is now an app that people use to take a picture of the coffee residue and then sent to a central processing team who can provide an analysis of your fortune. Jie and Mei felt that this was a great marketing scheme on behalf of the coffee companies, because our tour guide secretly admitted that although she was not a coffee fan, she would drink many cups of coffee just to get the residue in order to have her fortune read.

Coffee grain residue
No other aspect reflects the historical significance of Turkey better than its historical monuments. Turkey simply bursts at the seams with historical artifacts, with alleyways lined with buildings that are easily hundreds of years old, and glorious mosques scattered throughout the skyline. The four main sites we visited in Istanbul were the Blue Mosque, Hagia Sophia, Basilica Cistern and Topkapi palace. The Hagia Sophia was in fact a Greek church that was then converted into a mosque after Constantinople was conquered by the Ottoman Turks. As a result, although the outside architecture resembles that of a mosque, there are unmistakable features of the original church that remain.

Blue mosque
Hagia Sofia
Turkey’s landscape is absolutely stunning. In Istanbul, Jie and Mei loved walking around the city, enjoying both the cobblestoned streets as well as the water’s edge. When crossing the Bosphorous over to the Asian side of Turkey on a ferryboat, we were greeted with gorgeous views of the sparkling blue water against the iconic Istanbul skyline. 


Like many parts of Europe, Istanbul is filled with winding, cobble stoned streets and open-aired cafes, which reminded Mei of the plazas in Rome. However, nobody warned the sisters about the large number of steps and steep slopes, so it was quite a work-out when moving around on foot! 

For the second half of the trip, Jie and Mei flew to Cappadocia, which is a totally surreal environment, filled with strange limestone formations spanning the entire region. It reminded Mei slightly of Arizona or the Grand Canyon, and made for unforgettable views when suspended in a hot air balloon (which is a must-do!). Influenced by the unique terrain, many residences were built into caves, and we in fact stayed at a cave hotel! There were also many underground dwellings that were used by the Christians to hide from the Romans. During a tour of Argos Cappadocia, a high-end resort hotel in the town of Uchisar, the manager advised us to use the ‘Transfer Filter’ option on our iphone when taking a picture inside cave. This ended up making all of the difference in the world! We also learned that caves have naturally regulated temperature inside and it is always 13-15C regardless of how hot or cold it is outside. As a result, they make for perfect wine cellars as they can keep wine at the appropriate temperature every day.

At a rooftop in Istanbul
Galata Tower
Cappadocia hot air balloons
Cave hotel

Cappadocia
Cappadocia


Cappadocia Goreme open air museum
Cappadocia
The Evil Eye is everywhere! It is actually supposed to serve as an amulet to ward off evil spirits (or what is known as the ‘evil eye’). There are trinkets, jewelry and decorations adorned with the Evil Eye icon everywhere. It became a game for us to spot the Evil Eye whenever we entered a room as it was usually always present in some capacity.
Evil eye trinkets


Bazaars and markets: This was definitely influenced from the Asian side! The biggest markets are the Egyptian Spice market which sells a dazzling array of spices, dried fruit, nuts, Turkish delight, candy and (of course), spices near the historic town center. The Egyptian bazaar reminded Jie and Mei of the Taiwanese night markets except it was indoors, and the crowd was definitely very different. Istanbul also has the Grand Bazaar, which is one of the oldest and largest covered markets in the world, selling trinkets, jewelry, and mostly non-food items. Lastly, we also visited a wet market on the Asian side, which was reminiscent of the wet markets found in Asia, selling fresh fruits, meats and vegetables.
Turkish delights
Fabrics sold outside the Egyptian Spice market

Teas at the Egyptian spice market
Religion is fairly open and provides the freedom for each person to choose how to practice their faith. There is a call to prayer five times a day, and the majority of Turkish men will gather their carpets and kneel down to pray during this time. The acceptance of varying degrees of religious practice is also evident in women’s fashion. In a store window selling swimwear near the Grand Bazaar, we saw one mannequin wearing a bikini while the other wearing a fully covered number, reflecting the diverse range in practices. In addition, women are free wear headscarves as they please, and drinking alcohol is common practice.

Store window
Turkish baths reflect the Roman and middle eastern influence. Our experience taking one happened in Cappadocia, where we decided to go one afternoon after a hot day of exploring the rocks and underground cities. Turkish baths are taken in ‘hamams’, which are stone buildings that have a common/central area and smaller rooms attached on the side. Traditionally, hamams were used by Turkish ladies to scope out potential wives for their sons, since that was the only time they could assess a girl’s body. We started out by entering the main part of the bathhouse, which is quite steamy, and into a separate sauna room connected in the back. After steaming for a few minutes, we were told to go back into the main area and lie on our backs to rest before we were summoned into a smaller room with 2 massage tables. We then proceeded to go through a human car-wash: Lying on our backs on the massage tables, 2 bathers (1 for each of us) entered and used a scraper to scrub off our dead skin from head to toe. Mei had no idea we had that much dirt on our skin (well maybe it wasn’t that much of a surprise considering how much we walked outside!). After being thoroughly scrubbed raw, a soapy towel released a thick layer of soap suds onto us, and the bather lathered and massaged each of us thoroughly. Afterwards, the bubbles were rinsed off and we were told to go back into the main room to rest and rinse off some more. Overall, we found it to be a very relaxing experience, although we heard that the bathers at some of the Turkish bath houses were these enormous men who were quite rough.

Turkish bath house 'Hamam' in Urgup
Protests and young people: At the time of our visit, there was a mining accident where over 300 miners were killed. This had the entire nation in mourning and spurred protests due to lax safety regulations and company negligence. Although we did not witness any violent protests, we did see a group of young adults march through the Asian side (Kadikoy) when we were there, voicing their views. To our surprise and delight, the crowd was supportive and many even applauded with their encouragement.

The Whirling Dervish is a unique spiritual act practiced by Dervishes of the Mevlevi order in Turkey. They perform a whirling ceremony through several phases, with the goal of praising the lord and participating in a conscious form of 'revolution', which is a natural state of being for the universe (an electron revolves around a proton and the earth revolves around the sun). This is a sacred ritual, and almost all dances are performed by performers instead of by the actual Dervish. We thought that the seven pieces of advice that the Mevlana followed were thoughtful guidelines to live by.

Whirling Dervish Ceremony
Guidelines
Fishing on the Galata bridge: One of the greatest puzzles we encountered on the trip was the Turkish male obsession with fishing on the Galata bridge when there seems to be no fish to catch! Nonetheless, it was a popular spot to set up a fishing rod, and we suspected this was more of an excuse to enjoy the ocean view and for the guys to escape from household chores on a weekend afternoon.


 Turkish words are not easy! However, our tour guide at the Culinary backstreets tour was fantastic and helped us remember how to say ‘Thank you’ (teşekkür ederim) by stringing together the English words ‘Tea Sugar a Dream’ really fast.

Below are the details of our itinerary:

·       Day
Date
Activities
Day 1 - Istanbul
Saturday, 5/10
-Arrive in Istanbul
-Dinner: Furreya (fish kebab): Serdar-i Ekrem Sok. 2, Beyoglu or Karakoy Lokantasi: Kemankes Cad. No : 133 Karakoy, Istanbul, Turkey (Beyoğlu)
-Dessert: Karakoy Gulluoglu
Day 2 - Istanbul
Sunday, 5/11
-9:00 Blue Mosque
-10:00 Hagia Cistern
-11:00 basilica cistern
-12:00 Topkaki palace
-1: lunch at Kasap Osman
-Short Bosphorous circle cruise: 14:30-16:30
-5:00 pm head over to Egyptian spice market
-Dinner at Naif restaurant (this was so-so)
Day 3 - Istanbul
Monday, 5/12
-9:30-3 pm Grand bazaar culinary eats food tour
-Galata Bridge
-Dinner at Durumzade (Turkish wrap) near Taksim Square
Day 4 - Cappadocia
Tuesday, 5/13
-Depart for Cappadocia 
-Red Tour
-Dinner at Ziggy's
Day 5 - Cappadocia
Wednesday, 5/14
-Cappadocia hot air balloon ride
-Blue Tour
-Wine tasting at Argos
-Dinner at Elai in Uchisar
Day 6 - Cappadocia
Thursday, 5/15
-Full day tour (green tour)
-Turkish bath in the afternoon
-Whirling Dervish ceremony in Saruhan Carevanserai
-Dinner at Sofra in Urgup, dessert next door 
Day 7 - Istanbul
Friday, 5/16
-Depart Cappadocia for Istanbul, 
-Lunch at Ciya (take ferry across bosphorous to asian side)http://www.yelp.com/biz/%C3%A7iya-sofras%C4%B1-istanbul 
-Explore market on Asia side (Kadikoy)
-Dinner at Furreyua
-Shisha by Galata tower
-Dessert at Karakoya Gulluogulli
Day 8 - Istanbul
Saturday, 5/17
Depart Istanbul

Hotels:

Istanbul
Sub Hotel
Necatibey Cad No:91 Karaköy, İstanbul 
www.subistanbul.com/
Cappadocia
Serinn House Cave Hotel
Esbelli Mah Esbelli Sokak No 36 Urgup
Urgup, 50400, Turkey
Email:info@serinnhouse.com

Other general observations and tips:

Cappadocia was definitely eye-opening and a must-visit. We highly advise going on the Hot air balloon!! We joined these day tours arranged through our hotel by Rock Valley tours: http://www.rockvalleytravel.com/and it seemed to be the most common thing to do by travelers in the region. The tours are pretty small (around 10 people, sometimes less) and most travelers come from US/Australia/Europe so it’s interesting to meet different people along the way.

In Istanbul, we normally got around by foot or metro and it is very convenient. The historical sites (Blue mosque, Hagia Sophia, Basilica Cistern, Topkapi palace) are all within walking distance from each other and can be done in ½ a day. I don’t think you need to do the full Bosphorous cruise (where the ferry goes up and down the Bosphorous), because for 3 Turkish Lira (1.5 USD), you can take the ferry from the European side over to the Asian side and get a great view while you are at it.

There are many steep roads and steps, so it is important to wear comfortable shoes! Also, trams and cars appear frequently on the roads, so it is important to always look both ways and pay attention to prevent getting run over.

Things to buy in Turkey: Dried fruit & nuts (particularly dried apricots and figs), they also make amazing nut-butters and our hotel gave us some sample-sized home-made nut butter to take home. Some people also choose to buy turquoise and Turkish tea sets

Turkish food in Detail:

  • Breakfast usually consists of Simit, a sesame crusted bagel-like pastry or Pagaca, which is softer, slightly oilier pastry and has a texture closer to that of a croissant. Breakfast is typically accompanied with white cheese, cucumbers, olives and kaymak, a thick block of clotted cream that is drizzled over with honey and served with the bread.
  • Menemem is Turkish scrambled eggs with tomato and peppers, served in a skillet
  • Havla is a block of sesame paste with nuts inside, and resembles a nougat
  • Turkish delight is very sweet a gelatinous substance often filled with pistachio nuts and sometimes dusted with powdered sugar or coconut flakes
  • Dried fruit is popular, including figs and apricots. Nuts including macadamia, hazelnut, cashew nuts, walnuts and apricot nuts are widespread.
  • They have the most amazing home made nut butter
  • Bread is served with every meal, and takes the shape of either a flat pizza-like pita bread or crusty baguette-like slices
  • Mezze (dips), including hummus, yogurt dip, pepper and eggplant puree were some of our favorite things to eat
  • Gozleme is a savory crepe-like snack that resembles a Chinese onion pancake, and is baked over a hot clay stone and filled with either spinach or cheese
  • Pide is the Turkish version of pizza, which is usually smaller, oval-shaped and topped with either cheese or a mix of cheese and minced meat.
  • There are many different kebabs, including Doner kebab (shaved from a big skewer of layered meat), iskender kebab (leaner meat over bread cubes soaked in tomato and cheese sauce and served with a dollop of yogurt)
  • Durum = wrap, and there are many different kinds, including those filled with chicken, fish and doner kebab. The outstanding aspect of durums in Turkey are that the wraps themselves are flaky and flavorful (forget the limp and bland tortilla skins!)
Durum at Durumzade near Taksim
  • Borek (not Borat) is a lasagna-like snack that is made by layering in pastry dough and baked with white cheese, then cut up with slices of cooked pasta sheets in the middle. This was also one our favorites.
  • Kokorec (not cockroach): Sheep intestines that is grilled on a spit with spices, chopped up and served in the form of a sandwich. The Turkish joke that this is the main reason why the EU refuses to let Turkey join.
  • Çiğ köfte: Raw meatball mixed with spices, wrapped with lettuce and drizzled with a lot of lemon. When we visited this vendor, we were amused by how animated the man would jump around and massage the raw meatball before picking out a fistful and serving it to us on a lettuce leaf. That is passion!
  • Wet burger is like a soft, greasy slider with a thin piece of doner meat inside

  • Manti: Turkish mini raviolio topped with yogurt
  • Fried liver with French fries (both of us tried this even though we hate liver!) Verdict: still not a fan, but the side of vegetables were good.

  • Mussels stuffed with rice: ingenious way of preparing rice that is cooked into a mussel shell and when opened, the shell also serves as a spoon to eat the rice.
  • Yogurt is used as a side or topping for many dishes. Dill is also a popular herb to flavor dishes. Thick Turkish yogurt drizzled with honey makes a great snack or dessert

  •  Freshly squeezed orange, grapefruit and pomegranate juice is everywhere


  • Ayran – salty yogurt drink


Restaurant highlights
  • Kasap Osman near Eminomou (Iskender Kebab)
  • Durumzade near Taksim Square: http://istanbuleats.com/2009/04/durumzade-wrap-artists/
  • Yasemin’in mutfagi hummus and eggplant near grand bazaar
  •  Ziggy’s in Urgup: http://www.ziggycafe.com/
  • Elai in Uchisar (good mezze): http://elaicappadocia.com/site/
  • Sofra in Urgup (good chicken with rice and wrap)
  •  Argos in Cappadocia (for wine tasting): http://www.argosincappadocia.com/EN/


Bye bye Turkey! We'll be back!